A Tale of Two Men

Here's a tale of two men.

The first man talks a good game about his sexual exploits and for the most part, appears to back it up. But, I'm told that once he's done servicing his lover, he rolls over and falls fast asleep. And when he leaves her, there's a brief hug at the door and he's gone. No goodbyes. No callbacks. No e-mails. No strings. Nothing.

The second man also talks a good game. He backs it up to a degree, but not as well as the first guy. Still, once he's done servicing his lover, he doesn't roll over or fall asleep. He holds her in his arms and makes sure that she's warm. Throughout the remainder of their time together, he continues to pull her close. When he leaves, there's always an intimate kiss at the door. Always a goodbye. Always a call back. He says "no strings", but she knows there are.

For all intents and purposes, neither guy is trying to commit to any of his lovers. And both can be real jerks. But, while the first guy may be well-endowed and better at the mechanics, if left with no other choice, most women would rather spend time with the second guy.

My best friend and I were discussing this yesterday and agreed that the second guy just appears to behave more like most women think men should behave when dealing with a woman after sex. I haven't run into a woman yet, who appreciates a man rolling over and passing out. Or better yet... hanging on to the edge of the bed to make sure he doesn't touch her anymore. For her, when that happens, it's like, "what was the freakin' point?" A woman may deal with that a couple of times max. Then, she's more apt to tell the fool to lose her number. And he wonders why she's suddenly not available. Get a clue.

Be a player, if that's what you're gonna do. But, if you're gonna play the game, here's a tip. Hold her.. for a minute. And give her a kiss goodbye. Not a peck, but a soft, moist kiss. And it wouldn't kill you to call her back later that day. If none of this works for you, then keep it moving. I'm sure she will.

Peace,
BK

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